How to Get a Guy You Like to Notice You

One moment I’ll never forget in my life is when a guy suddenly took notice of me. We had met many times before but he had never really paid attention to me, then BAM he all of a sudden knew who I was and was interested in me.

I’ve had this happen to me with men as well. I’ll suddenly take interest in a guy who I had barely noticed before.

Why does this happen? Well one of the reasons is that we are bombarded with information, people, and tons of other activity in our daily lives, so we filter out the things that don’t interest us or catch our attention and we put our focus onto the stuff that does – including people.

This means that if you are interested in a guy and he’s not showing you attention then it may not be because he doesn’t like you but instead it may be because you are literally off of his radar.

Here are some tips to help you get on his radar:

Stay in his sight – Don’t drift to the background behind your more outgoing friends. Instead keep yourself at the front of the pack when he’s around so you are always in his line of sight. The more he see’s you the better chance you have of him really noticing you.

Keep your energy positive – Don’t’ whine or complain in order to get him to notice you. It may work but he will not be interested in knowing you better or having you hang around him – because you are negative. Keep yourself positive and uplifting and when he does notice you he will want to know more about this wonderfully positive person.4

Smell good – If you have a favourite scent then use it! This could be your way into his conscious! Smells have a way of grabbing our attention, and you may just be wearing a smell that reminds him of a good memory in life which will instantly associate you with that good feeling.

Acknowledge him – Don`t sit in the background waiting for him to say something to you. Instead say hello to him when you see him and say goodbye or have a nice day when you leave. If you are putting him on your radar then chances are he will start to really notice you after a while.

Look your best – This may sound a bit shallow but sometimes guys (and girls) will not notice you if you don`t fit their physical preference. I`m the least judgmental person in the world and even I didn`t notice a guy until he came dressed differently than he normally did. He later told me that he decided to change up his image just to catch my attention – and it worked!

Touch Him – If he hasn`t noticed you yet then this should speed things along. Put your hand on him when you are trying to get by or accidently bump into him slightly when you are walking by. He will have to look at you when you do this and your chances of him really noticing you will increase wildly!